How to Get Involved
Teach Your Child to Take Part
By Alexandra Kay
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Modeling is the best way to show your kids that taking action is important. “If your children see you volunteering starting when they’re very young, it will be something that they’ll want to do, too,” says Dillon.
You can also inspire your children to take part by telling stories about the things you’ve done for others and how you felt. Start a dialogue with your kids. Talk to them about the benefits and importance of helping others and about the values involved in being a part of their community – both locally and globally.
Volunteering has many benefits for children, says Dr. Jim Taylor, author of Positive Pushing: How to Raise a Successful and Happy Child (http://drjimtaylor.com/positivepushing/home.html). “They learn the value of giving and sharing. They hopefully learn that real satisfaction and meaning and joy come from outside the self – from connecting with others.”
Additionally, getting involved in the community can provide your children with opportunities to experience the arts, sports, or cultural activities that aren’t available in the home. Joining in local community programs can also build valuable communication skills and give kids a chance to learn about their interests. “It gives them opportunities to find their passion,” says Taylor.
What you can do:
- Talk about the importance of volunteering. Your kids need to understand why they should get involved. Tell them that in learning to help others they’re building a better world.
- Choose activities in which your children are interested. Having an emotional connection to an activity can encourage your kids to stick with it.
- Make it a habit. Making volunteering a regular in your schedule can help your kids make it a lifelong tradition.
- Make it a family affair. Encouraging everyone to take part means spending more time together as a family.

